Guest Book Comments
May Jehovah provide comfort for the entire family during this difficult time. He will soon use his immense power to restore our brother Richard. Sending love, prayers and hugs. - Kenworth & Tabitha Broaster
A mentor, a brother and a friend. - Larry Koernr
Dick will be deeply missed. Our families have known each other for over 60 years. - Jerry & Lisa Rhodes
It saddens me to be writing you Millie with this occasion in mind.
Dick was such an amzing brother and a wonderful husband. He showed it all the time. Always pulling the car up after the meeting, dropping you off before. Occasionally you would walk from the car.
Growing up in your hall was great, you and him made it an enjoyable time. You helped us a lot whenever we would find you at Sears and Dick would help us out so much either in the ministry or at the hall.
I remember the last time I came over for a visit, Dick had just made a great pumpkin pie.
One of the other things that is so memorable was the fact that he went over the baptism questions with me. I remember coming over to your house and going over the questions with him, he made it enjoyable and not where you might feel scared or awkward. He was so helpful. You guys were and have always been a great spiritual example by always being in service or at the meetings.
My late father John really enjoyed the help you both did in assisting him and his late wife Jan into the truth. He talked about how you guys were patient and helped them. He appreciated all the help you offered to him and her. He talked about the masonry work that Dick did. And what a skilled brother he was at that. If we happened to be somewhere and John saw the work of Dick he would mention it. Like the work done at the East Elgin hall.
John appreciated you both so much. As did me and my mom Gina and my brothers Brent and Blake.
Bridget although we have never met. I'm truly sad about the passing of your father. And I am so glad this was set up so I could see this. I can't wait to see your dad soon to come. He will be young and I am sure he will have a full head of hair. Can't wait to see it. I loved all his hats, especially his Eskimo hat in the winter.
I hope you both are doing well and I'll see you Millie the next time I am in Illinois. With great love, - Brock Bishop
My condolences to the family. It was a joy to read & learn about Dick's faithful service.
The fond memory I have was working alongside Dick with him teaching me how to lay bricks & being his helper as a youngster when the Elgin KH was built. He was encouraging, patient & positive. Maybe in the new world with Jehovah's blessing & undeserved kindness & mercy I'll be able to enlist his help in building houses. Isa. 65:21 - Timothy Jenkins
I will always remember Br. Gilmore calling on me during a Watchtower meeting, the question: "What entertainers have come into the truth?" He called on me and I said "Billy Graham!" his expression was "Whaaat?" ! The person next to me whispered, "you said Billy" I said "Oh no! I must try to make a retraction." I kept raising my hand, and that Dear Brother called on me again and I said "Retraction!" "It was Larry Graham who came into the Truth!" All the friends laughed, I was so thankful Br. Gilmore allowed me to correct that mistake...it meant so much to me...He was an "Awesome Elder." He and Millie, an Awesome couple!! -Mary Croom
Brother Gilmore and I go back in far, far history. I used to go to the book study at his house, which if my memory serves me correctly was somewhere over by Sherman hospital on the east side of Elgin. Of course, this is way back in the early 60's. As the Vietnam war started to rage soon after I was baptized. I had to start fighting the draft. Brother Gilmore was the go-to person to help write the necessary documents to be able to deal with this issue. He was a great help in my fight with the draft board. I am very thankful for his help and hard work as I did not go to prison, as I made my stand for Jehovah. Our paths crossed many times and he truly was a person that you could count on in the time of need. Look forward to working with brother Gilmore in the new system. - Gary Cooper
So sorry Brigitte & Tom for the loss of your beloved father. The tribute to Dick is so special, it focused on how Dick worked so hard to stay on the cramp and narrow road while assisting his family & congregation. His relationship with Jehovah is liken to stored treasures in heaven with his life long pursuits, which certainly caused that smile on his face. I am also impressed with the fact he got Millie to smile & that has been documented. -Art McCall
I will always remember Bro. Gilmore and his never ending smile. And the love that he showed for my son on his passing. He was always so kind and quiet spoken. When it came to the elders in our congregation Richard Gilmore was #1. He will be truly missed. - Lynn Benford
I would like to thank you Brigitte for sharing your memories and photos of your dad, mom and family. He was respected by everyone for his deep love for Jehovah. He and Milly set a fine example for us in the ministry. They would stay out in the territory for hours. He gave me some good advice which helped me with my children. I'll never forget his kindness. - Janice Allen
Brother Gilmore was a beloved brother by all and everyone loved him and he had wonderful experiences to share. I fortunately have two outstanding ones in mind.
I was leaving the Lutheran religion and the minister wanted to come to the house to speak to my husband Bill and myself. I invited Dick to join us. The minister and 3 others were present, Dick and another brother, Bill and I. The minister raised many questions and every time he did Dick would read a scripture to answer. The minister became frustrated, whipped out a pocket version of the new testament and said: "WELL I COULD HAVE DONE THAT!" Dick's answer was priceless, he quietly said; "We certainly would have appreciated it if you had done that." The meeting was over.
On another occasion I brought Dick on a call on a minister who wanted to use a Greek translation of the scriptures to explain the trinity. This was right up Dick's alley. We had our translation and he had his, Dick was brilliant. He compared many scriptures but the man was not having it, so Dick said "It comes down to which translation is correct and for that we are just going to have to wait and see!" Dick really did follow Jesus' steps closely and was an inspiration to us all. We will miss you dear brother and faithful servant. I
- Jan Oetjen
Dick touched the lives of all that knew him. He was a mentor, an amazing teacher and master of illustrations. I still use many of them today. Ruth once mentioned to me that as she listened to Dick teach, it is how she pictures the way Jesus taught. Kind, gentle, full of illustrations and thought provoking questions, always showing personal interest and care and yet never watering down the truth.
He truly reflected the qualities of Jehovah in his life. He was always patient. I fondly remember him trying to teach me how to lay block while we were working on the Bode Rd. Kingdom Hall. (I was never very good at it, but his kindness and patience never wavered.)
He mentored me when I was young, and he mentored me when we served on the same elder body years later. I benefited from his teaching not only in the congregation but when he taught elder's school. Even with (or maybe because of) the rich theocratic history he had, he remained humble and selfless.
He was always very generous. When I was leaving for Bethel, Dick and Milly bought me sweaters of such fine quality that benefited me in New York's cold winters and years to come.
He could and would kindly give counsel when needed but I never felt beaten, only upbuilt. One of the greatest impact on the Jones family was his aiding our dad into the truth. He also always cared for and showed interest in our girls and they benefited from his rock solid love of Jehovah and the truth. We look forward to Dick waking up from his nap and continuing to learn from him. - Kevin & Ruth Jones
It has been many years, but I remember that Dick was always kind, encouraging, and wise when I spoke with him. I was in college at the time which was rare for one of Jehovah's people. After hearing the challenges I had in life, he did not criticize me but encouraged me to always keep Jehovah first in my life regardless of my educational attainments. I am happy to say I have followed that advice. Dick and Millie were hospitable and made me feel welcome when I visited their home with Brigitte, Tom and other young people that were associated with us. After reading his life story, I have to say he was a very humble man. I was never aware of his many accomplishments in Jehovah's service; what an example to be followed. We can all look forward to seeing him in paradise during the resurrection. He endured faithful to the end. - Milton Ellis
I have many fond memories of Brother Gilmore...when Brigette was quite young, maybe 2 or 3 Dick was watching her and us 3 girls (we were 4,5, & 6) while Milly helped our Mom get out in service. Brigitte was beating on pots with a spoon. Are you still musical Bridge?
Another time I received some kind of counsel about my eye makeup it was quite green and I realized I was a bit heavy handed with the eye shadow! I appreciate all the loving care we received from Jehovah through our dear Dick and Milly! - Anita Jacobo Gordon
Tom and Brigitte and all the family, we are so sorry for your loss. We enjoyed the privilege of meeting Richard and Milly in the last few years when they visited Tulsa. It only took a few minutes to see what treasures they were. Such rich theocratic history! We enjoyed seeing Dick's eyes light up as we exchanged Bethel stories! He knew so many of the faithful old timers. Brigitte you had quite a spiritual heritage and we see many of their good qualities in you.
We have so appreciated our friendship with you and Tom since we have been in Tulsa. You two are also treasures to us. We pray Jehovah will help you and comfort
you in the days going forward. We look forward to the new world when we can hear more stories and enjoy life as it should be. Much love, - Tom and Tina Lewis
Richard was a much loved and cherished husband, father and Brother. We look forward to the day we are all together, to welcome him back. Till then may Jehovah hold all of you in his loving embrace. - Andrea & Jason Hungate
Such a beautiful life lived for Jehovah. Thank you for sharing all the stories. It's what a heart turned toward Jehovah should look like. I remember him well as a strong spiritual brother, with Millie, working hard for the truth. I wish I could have emulated them more in my teen years. My condolences to you Brigitte. - Kathy Peterson
So sorry to hear about the loss of our dear Brother Gilmore. When my wife Jean and I came into the truth in the early 70's we received so much encouragement from the Gilmore family. I marveled at Brother Gilmore's speaking and teaching ability. He was such a humble brother and his love for Jehovah and the truth always came through. Condolences to Milly and Brigitte and the rest of the family until you are reunited! - Jack Martin
We were so sorry to hear about your dad. So glad to hear all that history we never knew.
Thank you so much for the big laugh you gave us about having the same comment as Ronnie Banks. I could totally picture the whole thing. I loved that you came home and told mom! Sweet memories from the Heine St. Kingdom Hall.
I have very fond memories of striking brick one day with your dad. It was on the quick build for our Marengo Kingdom Hall. He talked about you being in Oklahoma.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom. - Rick and Debbie VanderKoy
Tom and Brigitte, our family pray that Jehovah give you the wisdom and strength to go through this difficult time. We will keep you in our prayers. - The Yeboah's
A number of years ago I had the privilege of attending an elder's school with Dick. Our entire class as well as the instructors appreciated the example that Dick set for all of us. His faithful years of self sacrificing service and insightful comments added immeasurably to our class. We all recognized that Dick was a living example of what it takes to be an effective elder. He certainly set a very high bar for all of us that attended with him to imitate. It would not be any surprise if when we see him again in the "New World" that Jehovah will use him as one of the "Prince's" to take the lead in assisting us to restore the earth to a beautiful paradise. It was an honor to serve "shoulder to shoulder" with such a loyal servant of Jehovah. - Mark Blaul
Mr. Gilmore was a wonderful person, a great neighbor, just the best. - Ann Braasch
Brigitte, I'm so very sorry for you and your mum. I'm so grateful we have the resurrection to look forward to and welcome back our dear family members.
I so thoroughly enjoyed reading all about the history of your parents. What a wonderful spiritual example they set for you; you are a testament to the groundwork they laid. The photos and video were so touching and brought me to tears.
Your family is in my thoughts constantly right now. I pray that you can have a calm spirit and peaceful mind, and remember all the wonderful memories you have of your dad. - Nikki Vaught xx
So sorry to hear about Richard's passing. Such a long time faithful brother ~ I will always remember his genuine smile as far back as when I was a little girl and my parents (Leonard & Rosemary) were friends with them. Thank you for sharing these memories of him. - Kimberly (Peterson) DalSanto
As I am sitting here trying to come up with the words to explain what Dick Gilmore meant to me, I am flooded by an overwhelming positive feeling and I am smiling while I reminiscence.
Growing up as a Witness was hard at times. But Brother Gilmore (haven't said that in years, always called him Dick) was always there to encourage and pick you up when you were down. I will never ever forget when he was giving a talk at the Kingdom Hall and he uttered the phrase "It's not the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog." To this day, that saying which he used quite often, has always stuck with me. I can remember the tone of his voice when he said it and the look on his face after he said it. I was floored at how poignant that statement was. If there was a way I could sum up Dick Gilmore, it would be that phrase.
I can recall many times talking about sports with him. I was just a young kid and even into my teenage years, he always would engage in sports talk with me and my friends. He even played sports with us at times. There was a time when him and I were playing basketball in my driveway. I clearly remember thinking, "This old man has got nothing on me. Watch me show him how it's done." I put a few moves on him and he stuck with me. I decided to take him out with my fadeaway jumper. I faked a spin move and jumped back to hit my shot. This man, who had to be nearly 70 years old proceeded to block my shot. But that was Dick, always at his best and still young at heart.
He always made time for those that needed help. I specifically remember him giving me his undivided attention anytime we spoke. He was one of the most genuine and caring people I have known. I love Brother Gilmore. He was a beautiful person and while I am filled with happiness in recalling the time I spent with him, I am also saddened in knowing what the world is missing without him in it. Because the world is missing one of the truly good ones. - Beau Honig
Thank you for sharing all this beautiful information about Dick's remarkable lifetime of serving Jehovah! It truly seemed like we were reading a modern day account that could be added to the book "Imitate their Faith!" What a marvelous spiritual heritage you have on both sides of your family Brigitte.
Even your humorous story as a little girl...what your Dad said at the Kingdom Hall (we can envision the whole episode!) Or, "Dick: the "escaping convict fleeing Canada"...are bits of his life that you treasure and make him so unique! It is so fascinating to learn "history" both serious and funny of Dick's life. And awesome to realize that Jehovah has memorized every moment of his life and even his innermost thoughts to completely restore him back to life soon. So he can "get back to work"...rebuilding this earth into Paradise! We picture you there beside him, but realize he already has a head start...he wasn't satisfied with his work unless it was "perfect" something you and the rest of us must learn!
I cried as I read out loud to Joe, the Memorial you wrote of Dick's life. Sorrow for your loss, and admiration for his qualities, worthy of our imitation. As your husband, father, brother or friend...your loss is great...but temporary. Soon tears of sadness will be replaced by tears of joy! Our warm hugs and love with you now. - Joe and Dale Schembari
We are saddened that our dear brother is not here with us at present. Our hearts ache for the pain you carry. At the same time we all have received the most beautiful gift from Jehovah, hope. Very soon our sorrow will be turned into sheer joy beyond our imagination! The family reunions of those who finished their race for life in this system will be like a massive hug from Jehovah and Jesus in the new world!!!
We especially appreciate the energy you all put in sharing this presentation. Your kind effort will be remembered well by so many that know your family.
Please remember you are in our thoughts and prayers for peace and comfort. ~ Psalm 4:3 - Thomas and Yvonne Parr
The tears just keep coming as I watched this beautiful tribute to your dad this morning. I loved your and Tom's comments sprinkled with humor. What a faithful soul, and what a Daddy's girl. Our hearts truly go out to you at this time of great loss. Thank you so so much for sharing the Memorial. I loved seeing the twinkle in your smile even as a little girl.
We will continue to keep you in our prayers during this tough transition. Love you very much. I'm so sorry you lost your dear dad. He will be back soon, full of life and strong.
- Rebekah Bodnaruk
Dick and Milly were like second parents to me. Brigitte was my best friend so I would spend many days and nights at the Gilmore's. As we got older, we still spent a lot of time together. We traveled all over attending assemblies in different parts of the country and Canada. When I got baptized, Dick gave the baptism talk. Dick and my dad were close friends, even before Brigitte and I were born. When my father died, I really adopted Dick and Milly as my second parents. Dick was always funny, he would make jokes with us kids. He will be missed...see you in paradise. - Ginene Westfall
We have enjoyed our friendship with Tom and Brigitte. Their memoirs are insight into a wonderful man we look forward to knowing in the future! - Marjorie Rittenbach
I grew up in the truth as a fatherless boy. My Father died when I was two years old and my Mother learned the truth after he was gone. She raised four children by herself and appreciated any help she received.
Brother Richard Gilmore was one of several Brothers who always took the time to give attention to me as well as others. Many of the Brothers I grew up with are serving as Elders in their Congregations today and we owe a lot to Brother Gilmore who did everything he could to keep us on the narrow road. When we needed guidance and direction he was always there for us.
When I was a very young boy, I was out in service with Brother Gilmore. It was a cold, snowy wintery day and we were walking house to house. He asked me why I didn't have better shoes on for the winter. I told him that it was the only pair that I had that were appropriate for service. Before he took me home that day he stopped downtown at a shoe store and bought me one of the best pair of shoes, I've ever had.
Later in the 1960's, District Conventions would be located far from where we lived. My Mother didn't drive and we couldn't travel. Brother Gilmore and his family were going to Canada for the convention. You guessed it, he took me along with his family to Canada. I will never forget that. I didn't even mind when Sister Gilmore took us all dress shopping. Now that was an experience. (Oh, and by the way, I can't say for sure, but I believe he paid the correct toll to come back in the states.) I trusted him.
Brother Gilmore is a man that will always be remembered for many fine qualities, including the Kindness and Love he showed to a little boy who did not have a father to look up to.
I owe him a lot. - Sam Lake
Hello my Dear Friend I was so very sad to hear about your Dad, we always enjoyed our time with him! Oh my goodness the video was beautiful so well done I loved the music. I would love to get together some day and hear you explain the pictures. There were so many sweet ones of you and your Dad. Loved the one of you giving him a kiss when you were a little girl. Your Mom was so pretty in the gold dress, love to know the occasion!! You and Tom look gorgeous in the pics. And your Dad HANDSOME!!! Also, the stories you and Tom shared were wonderful and of course humorous to say the least. It was a touching tribute to your Dad, can't wait to see him young and enjoying life serving His God Jehovah he was a faithful servant. Love you guys.... - Debi Timmons
Hi my sister ... I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. Oh my goodness, just saw your dads memorial video so beautiful! We have so much to look forward to. I wish I had a dad that loved me as your dad loved you. I am saddened by your loss but then so happy for you b/c your dad is in Jehovah's memory, he is going to be with you very soon. Sending our love. - Sue and Ron DeLegge
As you probably know, it was Dick and Millie who came to our door in the early 70's to witness. My mother Jan Rydin had recently lost a 2nd brother to a car accident and was questioning God and looking for comfort. They became fast long lasting friends from then on.
Millie would often invite us to the house after meetings for pie and coffee. They were like family. My brother Josh and I always talked sports with Dick. Always the Cubs. I am glad he got to see them win a World Series. Josh and I spotted Dick and Millie constantly driving around Elgin in their little dark blue pick up truck. He had big round reflectors on the tail gate which also set it apart from other older trucks. I cannot count the times I would be sitting inside Starbucks, and in would walk Dick and Millie. It would immediately add an air of cleanliness and righteousness to the store. It was like family walking in. Dick would read his paper and share something sweet with Millie. They would ALWAYS chat with me and ask how everyone was doing. Millie always asked for so and so's number so that she could contact them and encourage them or remind them of the upcoming Memorial.
My mom and John loved them. It was Dick that was at my mothers bedside when she took her last breath. He said a beautiful prayer to Jehovah while we all held hands. I will never forget while at my mothers funeral, the normally stoic Millie broke down and sobbed. They were dear friends.
Such a beautiful spiritual couple. Exemplary human beings. Of course we will have countless more stories in the new order, so this is just the beginning and a small portion of memories to come. Brigitte, if you are the one receiving this, you better take care of your mother! ;-) You're in our prayers. With love, - Michael Wilkinson
I loved Richard. He helped me in the truth as a youth. He was always an excellent teacher, I would see from time to time at conventions. He never changed always happy. Can't wait for paradise to see my friend again. - Dale Sphatt
My family met Dick and Milly in 1957. He was our congregation servant and watchtower conductor. Dick and many other brothers were father figures to me, me being a fatherless boy at the age of 9 at that time. I have many fond memories of him. He helped me to stay on the straight and narrow even when I needed discipline. Being in Texas for forty years now, I still think of Dick and Milly. Will miss him, but looking to a bright future. He was a awesome loyal servant. - Ed Lake
My deepest sympathy in your loss of Brother Gilmore. I only knew him for a short time. But I saw how much he loved Jehovah and his organization! He was always very kind and gentle. He will be missed immensely by many many friends. He is just taking a little nap now, because very soon he will awaken to the new world. We all look forward to seeing him again! So be comforted by wonderful memories and the comfort, strength, and peace that Jehovah gives through His Holy Spirit and the worldwide brotherhood. You are in my prayers. Love, - Pat Lloyd
"I love you, Brother Gilmore. He was such a caring elder to me and he helped me realize that Jehovah is the one and only true god. I can't wait to see him in the new world and we can celebrate together what Jehovah originally purposed for mankind, living here on earth. He had real faith and determination throughout all his life and I am determined to help continue the preaching work so more people can enjoy everlasting life with him.. I will see him soon and give him a big hug."
- Brandon Stricker
"My husband, family and I are sending love and prayers to you at this sad time of loss. Longing for the day that the scriptures that Br. Gilmore loved and cherished are fulfilled and we will see our beloved loved ones again. Perfect, healthy and the only tears are those of joy. Thank you for sharing his wonderful memorial with us. He will be greatly missed. With much Love and deep appreciation from the DalSanto and Peterson Families "
- Bonny DalSanto
I have never known a better man, brother and friend. He will be sadly missed and all who have loved this dear and precious man look forward to seeing him again. - Doug Jones
"So sad & sweet. What a wonderful brother and family. A record before Jehovah of faithful service & joy that he shared with others & we as beneficiaries of his love. We believe strongly that we shall see each other soon in Gods earthly paradise." - Scott & Lupe Everett
"What a privilege and pleasure to know Dick and Milly! I always enjoyed visiting them at Roll & Donut during service break. Very fond stories and expressions of kind hearted thoughts while LaVonne and I were living in Elgin." - Robert Eichman
"A phenomenal Congregation Servant. Mild mannered and a humble brother. Went over the baptism questions in the Lamp Book with Dick!! Enjoyed his WT discussions immensely. A great example for us younger brothers!" - Fred W Watts
I always enjoyed Brother Gilmore's wonderful comments at our Congregation Meetings. See you again Brother Gilmore. Rest now. - Sister Beverly Kowalski